I think that, overall, it went well. Sounds exactly how my lunch went with my H - was uneventful but I was secretly hoping for more. IMHO, after all the crazy texts from her, I think it was definitely a positive and she could see that you moved forward from the texts, were polite (drinks and entrance fee) and you didn't get angry or discuss the R or M. Congrats to you and S13, too!
M 44 H 46 M 20yrs T 25 yrs S15 S12
ILYBINILWY 7/18/15 Move to MBR 9/8/15 Physical Separation 10/10/15 Suspect A 8/2015 Confirm A 12/27/15 D filed by H 2/2/16