Lol, I think I may be the only one you got wrong. I maybe 'refined' for my rural setting but probably not what you think. Keep in mind I am also a wrestling coach and judo instructor, so I am a little more sporty, jeans and tshirt type guy.

I would be so in for the bbq too!

On a serious note, I get what your talking about missing W. All I could think of after dropping W off is "how did we go so wrong?" what did I do to hurt her so bad that she turned away from me? Is there anything I could ever do to bring her back? We should not be in this situation. But yet here we are...

I am sorry for your sitch Thornton. I can understand your doubts, fears, and anxieties. I also think about if my W is a happy person, she has often seemed pessimistic. If she will ever be happy. I guess sometimes if a person has been sad and hurt or abused for such a long period, happiness can scare or bore them.

Keep up working on yourself Thornton and so will I, maybe in the future we will both get to then work on our Ws.


Me 41
W 33
M 2013
Suspect A 11/15
Confirm A 1/16
She moved out 2/14/16
Stepson 13
Stepson 16