Ghost Busting - Time to accept what is happening

[PigPen]

Ghost, get an attorney involved or at least a mediator.

You're going to hear over and over and over on here not to do what feels "fair" in the moment.

Right now, you're like the drunk at 2am that swears he can drive home and all of his friends say, "Trust us, take a cab. Sure it will cost a bit more, but trust us on this one."

I'm sorry my friend, but you're not in a position to decide what's fair for you right now. You need an attorney to make sure it's fair for everyone involved. Neither you or your W are capable of doing that. Does that make sense?

Neither of you are capable of determining what is fair right now.

That means you're not.

And your W is not.

Does that make sense?