I am sorry that you are missing W again tonight. It is so hard to look back and see the things that you would like to change, but aren't given the opportunity to do so. It hurts like h!ll. I think about that all the time. Remember, though, even if you did everything 100% right in your R, that doesn't mean that your partner would have done everything 100% right. You can't take on all that responsibility.
I like what Tyler said about you and he thinking you would never find love again after the first wife and you both did. That really gives me hope for the future. You are a great catch - always so supportive and positive on this board, loyal, kind, and fashionable :-). You have come a long way in only one month! I was a sobbing puddle for the first 2-3 months. You are stronger than you know!
M 44 H 46 M 20yrs T 25 yrs S15 S12
ILYBINILWY 7/18/15 Move to MBR 9/8/15 Physical Separation 10/10/15 Suspect A 8/2015 Confirm A 12/27/15 D filed by H 2/2/16
Ya it's tough to see these couples sometimes. Just don't believe they never had problems, they did, they lived through a different time and treated things differently than society does today. It's unfortunate however it's reality
The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.
Ditto. I know that you are going to be happy no matter what happens in your sitch. I really wish we could all get together sometime for a bbq or something. It would be so cool to meet everyone.
I have all these images in my mind of what everyone looks like.
Here's my breakdown of what I think everyone looks like:
Broke - brunette, brown eyes, fashionable and bubbly. Ty- tall and slender. Blond hair and brown eyes. Like to wear a baseball cap. Red- latin and passionate. Sassy! Pinn-athletic firefighter type of guy. A mans man. Vanilla- slender and sweet. A great cook. Otw- tall like Ty. Loves fast cars. Sparkle- blond hair, blue eyes, dresses professionally.
I'm sure I'm waaaay off but it was fun to guess! Ha!
Lol, I'm sparkle now? (or is there someone else around here who's name I haven't noticed?!)
Close-ish. Blonde, green eyes though :P and I'm going into emergency medicine so substitute scrubs (I hate *adult* clothes)
M:26 H:32 T:8yrs ILYBNILWY/ "I'm not happy": 2/6/16 D-Day-discovered PA/EA: 2/10/16 Separated: 2/14/16 He's living with OW I moved to different state: 06/16 Currently: Trying to move forward
And now I"m going to feel suuuupppper awkward if I'm not sparkle X-P
M:26 H:32 T:8yrs ILYBNILWY/ "I'm not happy": 2/6/16 D-Day-discovered PA/EA: 2/10/16 Separated: 2/14/16 He's living with OW I moved to different state: 06/16 Currently: Trying to move forward
I am so in for the DB'ing BBQ and your description of me was dead on! That is hilarious!
Hope you continue meeting all those great goals you set. Remember, you are only about 1 month in, so you are doing great. Don't be hard on yourself - my bubbly self won't allow it :-)
M 44 H 46 M 20yrs T 25 yrs S15 S12
ILYBINILWY 7/18/15 Move to MBR 9/8/15 Physical Separation 10/10/15 Suspect A 8/2015 Confirm A 12/27/15 D filed by H 2/2/16
If only the PM worked we could set up a google hangouts or something X-p. Though you'd probably all get sick of my neurosis eventually.
M:26 H:32 T:8yrs ILYBNILWY/ "I'm not happy": 2/6/16 D-Day-discovered PA/EA: 2/10/16 Separated: 2/14/16 He's living with OW I moved to different state: 06/16 Currently: Trying to move forward