V - I am not sure about a bolt on the door. Since both of us are still on the mortgage for this home, I will have to ask the L. Thanks for saying boundaries take practice....I definitely need to reread them before any interactions I know will happen with him in the future. I want to be sure he understands that I do not have any desire to be his friend. Civil co-parents - yes, some small talk - yes, best friends forever - not a chance while he is having an affair.

I did wait several hours to respond to a trivial text tonight. And, I only responded factually. It was short and to the point. So, that boundary has been solid.


M 44 H 46
M 20yrs T 25 yrs
S15 S12

ILYBINILWY 7/18/15
Move to MBR 9/8/15
Physical Separation 10/10/15
Suspect A 8/2015
Confirm A 12/27/15
D filed by H 2/2/16