Ok. So new issue to add to what I posted earlier. Before she left we had planned on alternating weeks with the boys once I was done school. Now today she is questioning that saying that the boys need stability and is concerned they will feel bounced back and forth.
I get that. I do, I feel like they are being taken away tho. And I expressed that concern. I want what is best for my kids. She understands apparently and said its something we can continue to discuss.
I asked if there is an underlying issue that she has with the boys coming here and she expressed some concerns that I I addressed and haven't heard a word since.
I have concerns too. Not sure how or if I should bring them up at this time. As they revolve around OM and his involvement in the boys lives. I feel like part of S3's attitude change is 1 she packed up and moved a month and 1/2 ago. He is understanding it now, 2. 1/2 of the time she has been gone they were living at his house while he was away at work and his mom was on vacation. 3. When OM is home from working away I assume he is with them all the time like a happy little family. How does she expect the boys to act? Their whole lives were turned upside down!
How do I express this without getting too angry, also I will be met with anger by all of that. I don't know what to do here.
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