Ghost Busting - Time to accept what is happening

[ATPeace]

I have been in house separation for the past eight months trying to show my wife that people can change in the hope that my wife would give me another chance and let me show her that I can live up to her expectations of the man that she wanted me to be in our marrage

My W told me that it was over and that she would not change her mind and she has stuck to this no matter what I have done or said and because she is not open to working on creating a better relationship conversations at home are drying up and I sence that the end is looming.

So i have decided that I cannot do this any longer so....questions

First do we need soliciters to end the marrage ...it sounds like a dumb question but if she knows what she wants when the marrage ends and I agree that what she wants is extremely fair then she says that we can just go to the soliciters and tell them to put it to gether

Does it matter if she files for divorce on the grounds of unreasonable behaviour as it
Has been under one year since we Seperated

So do I sell house Then file for divorce or do we do the divorce first
I know there are three things to consider

1) the finances
2) the children
3) the marrage

In which order should this be managed

Do we go to the soliciters together canine solicitor wrap things up for us both

It is time for legal advice my W tells me that she will be fair and neither of us want soliciters to put a bigger wedge between us and start raking up legal bills

Dark times are here and it is now about how to walk away from this with enough that I can be a dad the best dad to my children.

Thank you

Ghost