First off, most me are macho around their friends. Most of us don't go around talking about how lonely and hurt we are to our guy friends.

Don't place any weight on what he said to his friend. Also, stop contacting his friend, you don't want that getting back to H.

Stay the course, Sparks. Don't reach out to him to post anything on his FB. You will not get the response you are looking for.


He's got to miss you before he'll ever come back.

Oh, and kicking him out because he was bringing OW to the house was the right move. Commanding respect is attractive.

Your story is not over. Keep going.