Now, the real work begins..Part II

[Vanilla]

I don't necessarily think small talk is bad. As long as it's not initiated, pursuing or about relationship you are fine. He is seeing you passionate about a sport and as a friendly person.

I think I mentioned my DB coach says it's necessary to have a friendship at the very least it's better for the kids.. I see what she is saying, but I also had so much anger at husband for leaving, I didn't wNt him to think we could be friends.
Also I took his invitations to go on family trips as more then he did.

Anyway glad that your doing well with GAL

Red is being abused, friendship really isn't appropriate in abuse sitches.

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