Too Much Time Is Passing By

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Not even a divorce can stop reconciliation. People get re-married to each other all the time.

In my case, the W is going after everything - including a trust left to me from my Mother. The W makes incredible money - her going after it, and even trying to stake a claim on my Mother's home because we did some fixing up - well it's beyond the pale.

Things are going to get really, really ugly if she pursues this. Everything that's community property will be liquidated, which breaks my heart. She chose not to go with mediation, rather lawyered up and went for the jugular.

This is Sandi's thoughts on the WW and A on steroids. I really can't see any chance of an R after there's nothing but rubble around us. After a D it would be hard enough to work through the baggage of her being WAW and A, then on top of it knowing everything we built together is gone, the lawyers have all the money and I've got to start over. I'd be more than gunshy at that point. Then there's the "friends", some of whom I know either enabled or actually pushed her this direction.

That's what's so terribly depressing about this whole CA divorce sitch. I wish I could slow it down somehow, someway.

To get back to Hope and not hijack her thread, it really sounds as if there's a lot more than a little something there. Compared to what I'm going through - well I'd trade in a heartbeat I tell you what!

All I can say is don't pursue, the H seems to be doing that just fine. Continue your GAL. It seems to be like popcorn to pigeons in your situation.