It is absolutely right not to even be friends with a WH who has sacked you as his W.
And I recommend that let go of what others think you can do that which is right for you.
His anger his problem, his circus his monkeys.
Let him play in his own sandpit.
And there he goes with the touch triggers again. You can't set firm boundaries if you fail to enforce them. Touching him isn't being 'nice' it's handing him control to trigger you.
So why are you struggling because there is an OW?
What do you want with daycation?
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW