V- anyone:
I'm struggling on boundaries now that I know there is the OW.

I know he wants to be best friends but I cant.

I had another friend tell me I'm very hot,cold,nice,mean with him when I talk to him.

I need help figuring out how to change that. If I'm too nice I start feeling love for him.

Like today I was nice and I scratched his back when he asked because he couldn't reach the spot.

But if I'm distant or cold he gets angry that I'm distant.

I know it is all me right now and trying to hold it together and detach.

Any suggestions?

My inlaws asked me to make something for easter and again if s3 birthday will be at there house like it is every year.

H still wants the family daycation.

Red wants...I do not know

Me:24 H:26
T:7yrs M:4yrs
S:4 D:5
ILYBNILWY 12/5
PA Confirmed 2/19