But I haven't been talking trash. If someone asked me where she was I told them she moved to Pa. to live with her mother. That is not talking trash. My daughter plays softball and all of the parents are aware of whats going on but some did not know she had left. My daughter just left for her senior trip. My wife texted me wanting to know how much money was she taking with her. I asked if she was giving her any. She asked again how much was she taking. I told her. she said that she was not going to be able to give much. I told her that I have explained to our daughter that she wasnt working and just didn't have any money. She said, She will never understand. I told her she will but you need to quit being so negative. She said that our daughter is so mad at her. I explained to her that I told her the other night that if something bad happened to her mother she did not want to have regrets about their last conversation. My wife needs conflict. She had not talked to me in several weeks and recently has tried to cause conflict. My wife also asked, If I had not asked how much money she was taking would you have told me. Why is that important to her? It's my money. If she isn't helping why does she care. My only contact with her has been to keep her up to date on our daughter, itinerary, updates on school or softball. I am trying to step away.