So rather than coffee since WW wants to see kitty 1 and kitty 2, how about a slight twist?
Next time WW contacts you acknowledged you listened to her and validate.
Sooooooo
WW blah blah I contact pinn
Pinn: when we last spoke I noted that you wanted to see Kitty 1 and Kitty 2 and that was very important to you. I have been trying to think of a way that could happen. If we can organise this between us is this what you would like?
WW yes or no
Pinn (if yes) I can arrange to be at the house X or Y although I have a meeting at Z, so it wouldn't be for long. At the same time we can drop off forms.
Then very very short interaction, warm neighbour, WW sees Kitty 1 and Kitty 2.
No expectations, no persuing. Let WW initiate.
My thoughts
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW