Thornton, thanks for that glimmer of hope. I too feel like Hope, time is passing and the separation is feeling greater and greater. Unfortunately, here in CA, the divorce process is meant to take almost no time at all, and the first court date is coming right up.

At times I feel almost more depressed than when this all started, perhaps because I see the end approaching and can't stop it.

In Hope's case it sounds like there's the potential of saving things as long as there's not a timeline with L's involved with the process.


Me: 58
Her: 59
Kids: 0
Dog: 1
ILYBINILWY: 9/15
D Bomb: 1/11/16 (found out filed)
Verified OM: 1/11/16
Moved out: 1/11/16 (thought it was temporary)