W I understand you want my opinion on issues like the card however moving forward I believe it's best to limit our conversations shoes with the children or financial matters until this is all sorted. I know longer feel or see any need to assist with fixing or solving issues you bring to me as it's not my responsibility to take care of these things anymore. If ever urgency arrives about the boys I will be there. Less pressing issues with the boys I will help to get through the situation.

This is a draft of a text I am thinking of sending W. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Is it worth sending her this message? As I find it difficult to limit convos to the boys. I feel great about how my life is going until we have a "nice little chat" and then I feel I slide back.

Is this a boundary I should be expressing or setting by actions.

The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.