Since BD, I've been being more attentive to chores and minor repairs that needed to be done around the house. Since WW still cooks dinner for me, I take care of the dishes. I realize that doing chores and repairs aren't gonna help lead to reconciliation, but should I pull back from doing these things?

I know that if I hope to have any chance at saving this MR, I have to become the man she fell in love with. I need to restablish my confidence, physicality, and leadership traits. Hope this gets me on track. Thanks.

Me: 41. Her: 38
D7
T: 13 yrs. M: 8 yrs
BD: 1/24/16