Glad to hear dinner went well with BIL and I can almost guarantee that your H will hear about your awesomeness at some point soon so keep up the good work! You've been such an inspiration to me bc we have so many similarities and I too feel like H has to be seeking validation, comfort and confiding in someone during this time and I'm thinking it's OW, but I know Thornton will say that's mind reading ;-).
TedTalks are a great way to gain insight and improve yourself. I just watched two on Friday night that helped to hone in on some patterns that I want to change.
"Be messy and complicated and afraid and show up anyways."
