Hi bluegirl. I am sorry no positive changes in your situation. Are you currently considering leaving husband?

I am sorry, I don't know how to advise, but I am hoping you continue to post here.

I too am considering ending things. My husband left me 8 months ago and does not know what he wants. His neglect and abandonment is not acceptable to me and I want to move forward. I guess it is a difficult decision for all of us.

Please keep posting. I think you will get good support here regardless of what you decide.


M: 42
H: 43
Twins age 5
WAH in summer