Hi Huddy. Change takes along time mate. Any of the success stories involve time and lots of it. I think years are Involved but it's a bit much for newbies to handle at the start

Your getting on with life and leaving her to hers. Sometimes we look for signs but we could easily misread bad signs for good or good for bad so it's best not to read at all It's tough on us but we have little choice

Your sounding strong so enjoy your chocs

Take care. Rd