I think We know deep down that they are being unreasonable. That they are unfairly blaming us. Something is black and they keep saying it is white and it is hard to cope with. I get thrown off so much by this as well. It makes us question our own sanity and feel almost powerless.
When husband does this, I question and question myself and end up stressed and depressed. I don't know if they are intentionally manipulating or if they just have deep issues.
I am miserable because I don't know what is right and what is wong. I do know I feel horrible. My mother says, nobody has the power to do this to you unless you allow it. I am close to walking away from it all. No more asking for explanations. I think it will be healthier for me. Giving it a month.
