Looking for some advice on how to interact with STBXH. Whatever I do he has never challenged it! When he said that we should have gone on holidays but not to see my parents he never pushed it further and now we are separated as he said that us not going on holidays was the reason why he had an affair as I wouldn't put his needs first! I'm sure that he had really pushed it I'd have understood.
The same with him seeing the kids at his supposidely housemate house! When I put this in place he never challenged it, now I feel like he has won because I have changed my mind.
I don't know how to react to people who are like that. He was the same with his ex partner and he would let her do/ say what she wants! It feels like he doesn't like confrontation.
Why am I saying that it's because he feels like he has won because I stopped him coming to the house and now I want him back in! I know I'm string enough to see him.
