Now what?/ One Day at a Time

[melweb]

Thanks for weighing in peace.

My plan of action right now is getting back to DB principles. I had abandoned some as we seemed to be reconciling--like R talks, and future plans, date nights (sex), other pursuing behavior. But I will go back to the beginning : back off, friend zone, validate. That all worked before.

I am unsure how to handle this A tho, because it was not a factor before. I do not want to let it happen right under my nose, but I know I cannot really stop it either. He is a hasty decision maker and will jump ship without a moments notice. He did not leave back in Nov, because we simply do not have the funds for two households, (I only sub at the school), but very soon that will no longer be an issue--certainly by May, or sooner if our house sells.


Thank you for all you thoughts. I appreciate it.