Now what?/ One Day at a Time

[peacetoday]

Hi Melweb

It sounds like you H is confused
while it seems that he wants to work things out with you, at the same time, he is attached elsewhere

If it is true MLC, which he does seem to have a lot of symptoms
it may take a while and a road full of bumps, touch and goes and confusion

I think It is positive that he chose to recommit for a time but he can't seem to
really stay on the beam
Since this is so new, you need to focus on yourself while you watch for clues to see
where is head is at:

Eat, sleep, exercise, breathe yoga, and take care of yourself
find a supportive women's group
decide what is best and makes the most sense for you
work on your spirituality if inclined to
create some new activities of your own
be mysterious
validate where appropriate and be kind to him in his confusion
Get some therapy for you
If he is willing to do couples therapy that may help

You can make decisions as you go and change them as well as you watch this play out
You may also want to seek professional legal advice one time just to see your rights ( many L do free consults)
without telling H anything..just so you know-