Everything will work out in the end

[shotgun]

Rouky I don't think you have be DB the wrong way. You are trying everything and in my view that means everything. Your STBXH will never find a woman who is more dedicated to him and he is a fool to leave. I admire your tenacity but wonder when you will have had enough. It seems like you have so much going on in your life that a person would become overwhelmed. Are you still going out with your friends? How are things going in IC? Is the weather improving over there? One thing I have thought about is that my STBXW has her routine and her support group that keeps her from having to think about the divorce and distracted from the pain of it. I do sense that she is becoming frustrated in the process but she gets out and kicks up her heels and can forget about things. We need to be doing the same. I am getting out a little more but it is tough in that my circle of friends includes STBXW and OM. Everyone is weirded out by it too. I am thinking about taking guitar lessons. I still go to Spanish class and yoga. I am trying to get really busy and hoping that I stay distracted. Let me know if you have any great ideas for GAL!