V is for Vanilla 28

[Joe46]

Hello V!! As you know I have not been on here in a while. I will have to catch up on your thread.

I too am in agreement with the others. You are a wonderful woman and H doesn't deserve you! I have learned through my journey that we make mistakes in our marriage, we have to learn from them and move on to make ourselves better. I have come to find out that XW has been doing this alot in her past. I am not the first. I think we are similar in our situations. Even though we made mistakes, we don't deserve abuse or being cheated on.

Our ex's are someone else's problem now. We have to heal and know what we will and won't tolerate in the future. My counselor is working with me on this. Why did I tolerate the intolerable??

You are a wonderful and caring person!! You deserve happiness and peace!