Thanks Cherry. Not sure if I am more angry, or hurt.
I am pretty sure he just "broke up with me" via text. He is away on biz trip and I tried to Facetime last night and again this morning. No answer. Finally just now, he texted " how things, hows boys?" I answered short and sweet. He asks why I Facetime but not text? . I say if you cant answer Facetime, then you can't answer text. He says "you sense something don't you?" I say yes. He says "i tried." I say we knew it was a work in progress and we had made such good progress. He says "I know Melweb." He cant call cuz he is at dinner but will call me tomorrow.
I cannot believe he is doing this .(well, I guess I can) Why all posturing? Why tell EVERYONE we were getting back together? He already had his out.
I truly believe he is in MLC. I don't even know what to say to him. Two weeks ago we were "on our way to love and happiness." I got babe, sweetheart and I love you's. We really were making good progress.
Any idea what to say to him? Bring up the last few months? Just listen and validate? This really s-u-c-k-s!!
You've learned so much about how to detach, and move on with your life for your own health. You need to put that in place now. You're not even half way done with your life. Things will get better. If this is over then you can hold your head up knowing you tried your best and it just wasn't to be. You're a really nice and quality person and you will love again. Sometimes the fog of MLC/A's is too strong for them to come to their senses.
Don't cry. Don't beg. Don't even bother getting angry at this point. Detach. Do some GAL. I know you had dreams you put on hold or forgot when you got married. What are they? Want to go back to school? Do it. Want to travel? Do it. You are the master of your own life at this point.
