Sounds like a good plan. The more prepared you feel, the more confident. Whatever you do, don't get anger. Tell her you'd like to think about it and get back to her when your less emotional if you have to. Just don't let her see you lose your cool. Then she can't push your buttons. That would be major victory. Good luck!

M 44 H 46
M 20yrs T 25 yrs
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ILYBINILWY 7/18/15
Move to MBR 9/8/15
Physical Separation 10/10/15
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