Now, the real work begins..Part II

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Just checking in....not much new to report. H has been in Florida since Wednesday, so NC. I responded to my BIL and the kids and I are meeting him tonight for dinner at a restaurant. I feel like I have a plan in case he tries to discuss the M in any way. I also felt like meeting him at a restaurant would give him less opportunity to ask questions about what is happening (especially in front of the kids)....hoping it is uneventful.

Last night was a bit rough...miss sharing my day with someone and hearing about someone else's day. The friendship my H says never existed is probably the thing I miss most right now. I am proud of myself that I didn't reach out to my H when I was missing him. I feel like I have been db'ing with detaching and doing my 180's for 3 solid weeks now. The only hiccup was being too much of a "friend" to him and I think having no contact for 4 days will assist me with that including the boundaries I wrote out with Vanilla.

Making myself GAL today so I don't get into another funk. Lunch with friends, golf lesson in an hour, church, and, finally, dinner with the BIL. Fingers crossed the dinner goes okay.