Hey Thornton, sorry it's a rough one. sometimes when I'm having an off day I think of three things I could do - eg:

Cook a meal I never cooked before
Get the garage properly sorted
Take that trip to the museum I always meant to take

Then I say to myself - I really don't feel like doing anything, but I know it's a good idea to do something. It doesn't matter which of these 3 things I do, but I'm going to pick one and I'm going to do it for at least an hour..two hours or whatever.

Hope this helps a little. Just by the by - is there a contact list for your divorce group yet? That's been a good thing for me - having a group of 8-10 people in similar circumstances, keen to get together socially.

Take care.....this will get better my friend xx


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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus