Tim,

I agree with the posts above. You are going to have to be the bigger person here (especially for your S13) and DB the best you can. You are going to have to validate and detach like crazy. She seems like she is just looking for things to fight about. I am sure she is like my WH where he feels guilty (no remorse to fight for marriage). So, she needs to find any faults she can in everything you do in order to justify what she has done. It is unfortunately that S13 is in the middle. I am glad that you get to spend time with S13 for weigh-ins and his birthday. Either he spoke to his mother or maybe she did realize she was being unreasonable... one can always hope. Enjoy your bday dinner!


M 44 H 46
M 20yrs T 25 yrs
S15 S12

ILYBINILWY 7/18/15
Move to MBR 9/8/15
Physical Separation 10/10/15
Suspect A 8/2015
Confirm A 12/27/15
D filed by H 2/2/16