Thanks, Job. I was getting tired of trying to validate and reassure him. He's only going to be 52 in a bit. He acts like that's ancient!
He is working long days and trying to make more money (its suddenly become a major stressor for him) but fails to realize that its because he is so overextended. He wanted our vacation home even though we were already struggling to create a retirement for us and threw a fit when I said it wasn't very doable (I was in charge of finances, but he always battled for the past 10 years because he became a big spender. He made the money, so I always caved, but we used to make our decisions together before.). Now we have no savings and our retirement is small. Now that we are getting a D, he's suddenly worried about money.
No wonder he's tired and feels old.
M-51 H-54 2D-27 and 25 M-26 yrs Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15 He moved out 10-3-15 D filed 1-27-16 D final 10-27-16
