I do thing that I'm attractive both physically and personality wise. I'm a good looking guy who has gotten is 20's physique back and seem to be able to make my friends laugh (and my wife in the past). I'm the guy playing the guitar at the parties, that sort of thing. I have a lot of friends and am social (although I'm not on any social media - my wife is on FB - I don't have time for it).
My goals are to better myself and make my laugh happier. First thing is to get my exam done and change jobs (current one isn't bad but doesn't pay the best - I work on contract). I'm also ensuring I dress in an attractive way no matter what I am doing these days. This isn't just for my wife but to regain some of the confidence I had lost. What do they say, when you look good you feel good. It's fairly true.
I think my wife misses the old easy going guy who used to make her laugh. Seems the last few years all that I've done is make her cry. I didn't see it happening but I am aware of it now so am on the road back to who I really am and I think that is all my wife really wants. She (nor I) want to go back to the way things have been in recent years.
W has never specifically said what she finds attractive to me that I can remember anyway. Will have to ask her one day down the road 'when' we get through this!
