Yeah, the actions (I see now) got my expectations up. The work thing is already dealt with. Not a job she wants, but will pay bills until something else comes along. That was topic of convo a few times this week along with everything else.

I personally feel as if it is manly OM stuff on her mind? But that is merely mind reading. I do get it, but it was the classic affair DOWN... Big time! Still emotions to process though


Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home