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Pretty sure he wanted me to find this


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Originally Posted By: melweb
HELP!!

I thought H was leaving today for biz trip but found reservations for hotel ( they were printed out and in the garbage) about 40 mins away. And not just for tonite, but til Saturday.

I am seriously considering driving over there!!!

HELP


If it was me I'd drive over there because I no longer cower in the face of infidelity. I tried that and it didn't work.



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Can you handle driving over there and being calm about it???

What will you do when you get there?

I thinknthat you already know that your husband had not been faithful. You CAN confront, if that is what you want to do.

Question is either way, what are you going to do moving forward???

Your real db starts right now.


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I called 10 hotels in area, he is not in any of them. I even called one in city where possible OWs live. Not there. He is using company credit card, so it has to look legit.

And I cannot find this hotel in the city where he told me was going. I guess I have no idea where he is.

I am driving myself crazy!!


Me 47 H 49 S18 S15
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BD #1 11/09/15 ILYBNILY
I believe we are Piecing 1/2/16
Suspect EA/PA? 2/28/16
BD #2 "He tried, but needs passion." 2/28/16
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What type of cell phone does he have? iPhone? Android? You can track either.



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He has an iphone


Me 47 H 49 S18 S15
M 21
BD #1 11/09/15 ILYBNILY
I believe we are Piecing 1/2/16
Suspect EA/PA? 2/28/16
BD #2 "He tried, but needs passion." 2/28/16
Confirm PA 3/11/16, he's leaving in June
H leaves 5/7/16
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Zephyr--I do not know if I want to confront. I most certainly did Thursday night, but now that I have had time to calm down and collect, I feel uncertain. Is that pitiful, or what?

Truly, I do not even know where my thought process is now. all I know is that I am kind of a mess, and driving myself crazy.


I have until Friday to figure out what I want to do.


Me 47 H 49 S18 S15
M 21
BD #1 11/09/15 ILYBNILY
I believe we are Piecing 1/2/16
Suspect EA/PA? 2/28/16
BD #2 "He tried, but needs passion." 2/28/16
Confirm PA 3/11/16, he's leaving in June
H leaves 5/7/16
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Quick question: When/"IF!!" H reaches out to me, do I act as if all is well. He does not know that I know of The Case of the Missing Condoms and Cialis.


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BD #1 11/09/15 ILYBNILY
I believe we are Piecing 1/2/16
Suspect EA/PA? 2/28/16
BD #2 "He tried, but needs passion." 2/28/16
Confirm PA 3/11/16, he's leaving in June
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Melweb I'm so sorry to read all of this! I'm so angry for you. Personally I think a talk is needed. He is cake eating for sure


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Originally Posted By: melweb
Quick question: When/"IF!!" H reaches out to me, do I act as if all is well. He does not know that I know of The Case of the Missing Condoms and Cialis.


Personally I don't play games anymore. I used to do that. I finally gave up. If you pee on my leg and tell me it's raining I'll call you a liar. If you do wrong by me now I will call you out on it. That has worked so much better for me than playing games. Especially with a cheater.



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