I guess she's dealing with a lot of stuff Uphill. Affair processing? What am I going to do for work now? Clearing online debris?

Best to maintain a very steady course yourself for now. Keep expectations low and be willing to talk a little if she wants to. Otherwise, it may be best just to be pleasant and briefing when you see her. Give her a little space and time for now...

I do think there have been some 'actions' though, which is positive :)X

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus