Sotto, my game plan exactly. Just live my life like I was and see what happens. She came to me for all the talks that happened but I was more than likely too available.

Side note, in this past week, she did quit her job. I made it very clear that would have to happen in the past when we talked. Also, her Facebook has been cleared of anybody associated with that job or OM. I guess that may have been what got my hopes up so quickly? What she was saying, was being backed by action all week. Then it's like a partial wall came up as if second guessing. Maybe it was just a bad day? The finality of them having no further contact at all?

Time will tell, kid swap in a few hours. Wish me luck!


Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home