Feeling he's in MLC, but in D process

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Thank you, Job.
I've been reading and re-reading these assignments for awhile. They have been very helpful.

I would love some more MLC book suggestions, as I've been more focused on listening skills,coping with separation and MWD's books on saving marriage.

I'm in the throes of D, but am choosing to stand, as well. A strange place to be, made more difficult by my H's wanting to be friends because we know each other so well and his still wanting to "take care" of me. But only when he wants to or with things he finds important.