Good advice from Thornton and vanilla. I think the DR book says don't rush because you may scare them or it may take a couple times before the real work towards reconciliation begins. Seems promising - keep doing what you are doing! Keep us posted. We are pulling for you.

M 44 H 46
M 20yrs T 25 yrs
S15 S12

ILYBINILWY 7/18/15
Move to MBR 9/8/15
Physical Separation 10/10/15
Suspect A 8/2015
Confirm A 12/27/15
D filed by H 2/2/16