Hi U, it sounds like it's time to gently withdraw and do your own thing again. On her part, it may have been more of a temp check, and once you have shown some interest, she has backed away a little.

But, I think it's a baby step as there are clearly some feelings still there on her part. Don't be unpleasant, just remove all pressure (ie: R talk) and go about your own life for now.

Take care xx


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