I said she had no right to cut his hair, that I try to keep things between me and her, but she loves crying to him, that I discovered that when she accidentally emailed me instead of him to complain about me, but she has never caused us any problems, right?? I asked him to calm down, don't take it out on S, and we will work on the chores.

He accused me of encouraging S to not see his mom. Says I think she doesn't deserve to see her grandson. Then says S says he just gets bored with her. So obviously that is all coming from her? Says he doesn't even know how to overcome what I am teaching him. That I need to think about what I am doing to him by being his best friend instead of parent. Then said he and S had a good talk and are now snuggled up watching a show they BOTH like. Then added it's perfect timing, to watch the episode of Last Man Standing they are watching to learn how to be a parent.

Wow. It's been a long time since he has flipped out like this. His TM"s are so ridiculous, just total spew. I stopped responding and tried to do yoga but can't stop shaking. I just have to shake my head though. They think lack of chores will be harmful to my son, not the emotional dysfunction they bring on.

I can't even imagine being around him tomorrow.


Me 48 H 46 S 11
M 2004
BD 8/13
H moved out 2/15
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