Time for a new direction

[mleigh4]

Ugh. 10 o'clock at night and now H is blowing up my phone again over S. Said S got all upset because H asked him to help him make corn bread. H is having a fit and his text is pure spew. More of the "get mad if you want" and "go ahead and think I am bad or Grammy is bad"

I responded nice and calm, agreeing that S needs to help more without the drama and agreed we can put our heads together and come up with a plan that keeps it consistent for each home. I also assured him that I want him to talk with me about his concerns, that we are in this parenting thing together.

Meanwhile, he continued to spew, while I was typing my nice and calm reply, that he grilled S on what he helps me with and he doesn't want his son growing up to be some unproductive selfish adult.

My poor son, we were having such a nice night, getting ready for his party tomorrow, until H got him.

I replied to H, geez H, where is all this anger coming from????

Crickets

Why does something tell me Grammy gave him an earful yesterday, after being shunned on Grammy day once again. I can't prove it, but would bet money on it. Something has set H overboard once again....

AND there you have it. He just TM me again, about me getting upset with his mom for cutting S hair. Bingo!!!