Tim, catching up on your sitch. I'm certainly not a DB vet, but I agree with everyone here on going dark. Your W sounds very wound up and any little thing you say/do will just tick her off even more. It sounds like you're doing very well in your DBing and she's reacting to the boundaries you've set up b/c she's not used to it. Stay strong.


"Be messy and complicated and afraid and show up anyways."