Thanks Melo! Going to read up on your sitch later on.

Very good advice. My father pretty much said the same thing. "If she is in an EA/PA...you will know it eventually. But you can't control it either way. Love her because you made a vow to. When truth comes to light, then make decisions"

Trying to live by his, and your words. Anxiety [censored]!!

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I think I will probably address my anxiety triggers (phone secrecy & money issues), but not in the light of an EA/PA...simply as a 'This is moving us further from one another, not closer'

Who knows...may be a bad idea. I'll think on it more...got till 9am EST!

Ojap
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BD #1: ILYBNILWY 09/2015
BD #2: W asks for S 12/2015
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Currently: Limbo