I do not want to let someone hurt me like that again. Especially her. Would I give us another shot? Maybe, not in the near future as of right now. She said again and again we both need to find oursleves. Well now I am, I see that it is a long process, and I don't know if I want her part of it until I am happy with myself. By that time who knows.
Wow, Tyler, this was such great insight. When I asked my IC the other day why I would even consider wanted my H back after he cheated and lied and she said because you'd like for this to be over and to go back to the way it was. I said absolutely not. That marriage wasn't good enough for who I've become in the last 7 months. I'm not quite ready to say I'm not sure if I want my H to be part of it or not. Not yet. But I think you are truly detaching. In such a healthy way. I'm hoping to continue my journey and get there soon. Have a wonderful weekend! Enjoy every minute!
M 44 H 46 M 20yrs T 25 yrs S15 S12
ILYBINILWY 7/18/15 Move to MBR 9/8/15 Physical Separation 10/10/15 Suspect A 8/2015 Confirm A 12/27/15 D filed by H 2/2/16