Not sure where to stand

[Sparkls]

You are welcome to print it off so she doesn't know where it's coming from and show it to her. I'm also on wellbutrin. I was just warn her that if she really is feeling numb or more depressed, she needs to tell her doc because antidepressants can have the opposite effect, especially initially.

On my own personal note: got my hair did. (Said in hillbilly accent). Cut off 6 inches. Looking fine ;-) And made a bunch of cake pops for a baby shower tomorrow.
Also watched an interesting ted talk by Esther Perel that someone on some page here mentioned that was really spot on. Funny how from the outside I can look at this affair and tell you what is really going on (none of the ILYBNILWY or I never loved you, blah blah) but H is so wrapped up in it, he can't see reality. I guess there's a small comfort in that for me, cause it really helps me solidify that although I contributed to the problems in the relationship, the affair is not about me. It's not even really about our relationship.
Food for thought I suppose.