Ojap's Story

[Ojap]

CWOL: If there was an OM, then of course it would change my gameplan. Truth is...I've been looking at her emails for months (up until a month ago) with no evidence at all. I've been looking over her shoulder at text messages...trying to check them when I hear her phone. I've driven by work to see if she was where she said she was, etc. I've done this since October of last year. And...I've found no 'hard' evidence. Some minor circumstantial...but nothing concrete...and I've been VERY alert.

I know it's still possible that there is EA/PA...but I can't find any real evidence. Would have install a network sniffer, or hire a PI to go any further.

THORNTON: Yea....in all honesty. Her actions have shown that I believe she is trying to work up her ability to actually leave. To not care what people will say, or what the consequences will be. Basically, it is her love for our 3 girls that is keeping her here. She knows it will absolutely crush them. She doesn't want that guilt.