How does that change your gameplan on getting her back?
Wouldn't the existence of an affair change everything? You'll realize that root cause is not yourself but an OM that is generating the fog for your WW.
Me-LBH, 48 Spouse-WW, 48 Married for 19 years Son, 12 BD #1 - November 1998 (EA 7 months after wedding) BD #2 - November 2015 (same XBF EA) WW filed D February 2016 WW moved out April 2016