Thornton....Currently I haven't processed it. I'm not certain it can change it a lot. I guess I still need to 180, GAL, etc.
I struggle a bit b/c the intimacy/closeness you feel with sex tends to leave me in a place where I start advancing my expectations. But...my guess is that I need to manage them back to zero. Not expect this to change much.
Bottom line: She IS depressed. She wants to be separated, but can't bring herself to take any action.
Also....it does make me VERY gun shy to bring up my anxiety triggers at MC (Her phone secrecy & spending large amounts of $ without discussion). Still not sure what I'll do with those tomorrow.
Ojap M 13 T 15 D 11 D 11 D 9 BD #1: ILYBNILWY 09/2015 BD #2: W asks for S 12/2015 ---------- Currently: Limbo
