Tim,
just wow.
I guess if I said one thing, it's that you tried to explain too much.

On the upside, you've got that, er, "exchange" on text, so you can save it. It certainly shows that she's madly pushing buttons. While it may be her reality, it doesn't jibe up with the average person. It's obvious she's being really passive aggressive.

I keep seeing the same thing too - it's like you're somehow responsible for your S's schedule. She acts as if he's a widget, without his own life and thoughts.

I am so sorry.

I guess maybe I should be happy that I'm not communicating at all with the W. Although as unhinged as she's been acting, she wouldn't be doing anything like this.

One thing I could say that I learned a long time ago is try to keep texts to a minimum. Even when people are on good terms, things can go sideways really fast when texting and emailing. At least an email gives to time to reflect and compose. A text can get too heat of the moment - and it looks like she reeled you in on this one.

Try to have a decent weekend, and leave this exchange as far behind as you can.


Me: 58
Her: 59
Kids: 0
Dog: 1
ILYBINILWY: 9/15
D Bomb: 1/11/16 (found out filed)
Verified OM: 1/11/16
Moved out: 1/11/16 (thought it was temporary)